Wednesday, February 24, 2010

What does he want from me!

Men like to give love and they like being loved in return; they appreciate a little romance from us ladies, and even though they are not into the frills to the extent that we are as women, a little massage oil, some candles and a hot bath really do go a long way with a real man!
Men want a woman who takes pride in her appearance. Plain and simple.... Men feel proud when they are with a woman who looks good and I don't believe any man who says that he doesn’t.
Men want to make a home eventually and are looking for a woman who will be a willing share her life with his. Many men want to embrace fatherhood and they are looking for a woman who would be willing to walk down the road of parenthood with them.
Men are seeking women who are feminine. Women who possess gentle and kind spirits resonates with men because deep down those are the qualities that make women a great mothers. When a woman can retain her femininity no matter what role she has to play outside of the home (and I will talk about that more later) she strikes a harmonious cord with a real man.
Men want a woman who is supportive. When a woman is either not able or willing to give that support that her man needs and is too quick to criticize then I assure you, he will become quickly dissatisfied and will eventually walk away.
Men want to be treated like men and respected for their leadership the relationship. I promise you ladies, telling him that “daddy did it this way” will be a big turnoff. Real men pride themselves on being able to take the leading role in the relationship. Notice I said Ream men? Boys want mamas and so it’s likely that they will be okay if you call every shot that is necessary. But a real man will no doubt want to take care of you as his woman and support you in things big and small. Your tire blew out on the highway? Yes you and I both know that we can call AAA, but let your first call be to him (not daddy, not older brother) and just ask him for his advice. Give him the first opportunity to be there to support you. He will appreciate that you sought out his opinion and once again, a REAL man will certainly come to your rescue.

Did I get it right fellas? Please feel free to comment. We ladies need to hear from you!

Till next time....

2 comments:

  1. I think you are on to something! I can agree with ALL of that!

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  2. There is a bulleye and hole in one...let's say your words of wisdom took aim, made its mark and ruffled some feathers of the non-believers. Thank you for your words Lady for they gave truth to a man's thoughts. Such keen comments provide a glee of satisfaction, knowing there are special women out there that know exactly what this man needs and desire! Standing ovation delivered!

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