Wednesday, March 10, 2010

“When a wife has a good husband it is easily seen in her face

What makes a man a good husband? What makes a woman a good wife?

Please comment-

A good husband is never the first to go to sleep at night or the last to awake in the morning- Author unknown

Monday, March 8, 2010

A man in love becomes a softer version of his former self.

Women are always wondering if their man is falling in love with them. And what do we do, we ask our girlfriends for the answer instead of watching the actions of the man himself.
You wont have to ask, just watch him.... recognizing the signs of his devotion can offer you all the reassurance you need.
You will begin to get his TIME! A sure sign that a man has fallen in love concerns his friends. At one time, "his boys" may have sat at the center of his universe, but when he becomes emotionally connected with you, he will want to spend more and more of that time with you. This goes for other things as well. Never buy into the “I am working so much I cant be with you right now”. A man in love will move heaven and earth to spend time with you no matter what his schedule is. A man in love can work 12 hours, drive an hour past his own home to come to your house AND get there after 10pm just to lay next to you in bed. Why, because even though his body is dead tired, you make his heart and soul alive and happy.
When a man's falling in love there is change in his decision-making- he begins to consider you and your feelings when he makes a decision. He starts to think about how his decision will affect you as a couple and he will most often ask for your input.
He opens his home to you- He stocks his refrigerator foods you like to eat or the type of soap that you use. He wants you to come over often and makes you feel at home.
He wants to explore the world with you- Has he asked you to travel with him somewhere new? Men in love not only want to share their interests with you but they began to feel close to you in a way that makes them want to create new experiences and adventures with you.
He starts to change things about his life that he once was comfortable with. Has a man ever told you, that you make him want to be a better man? If so, it’s because he is falling in love with you and he wants to give you the best. He becomes motivated in ways that he may have not been in a while or perhaps ever.
You hear from him often when you aren't together .Men want to be close to the women they adore and they will often call, text or email you when you are not together.
He becomes emotionally invested in you and the things your doing. When man is in love with you he'll have a genuine concern for the things you are experiencing good or bad. If a man is willing to drop everything to listen to your problems or help you with something, he has strong feelings for you.
A man in love will go out of his way to do things to surprise you. He wants to see you smile and He will take note of the things you enjoy and uses that information to create sweet gestures of surprise.
You can tell by the small things. He may hate cats, but will treat your cat like a feline princess. He uses we or us when talking about the future, there are pictures of you in his home or on his desk, or in his phone, he kisses you on your forehead and tells you that you are “so cute”.

A beautiful passage from a Real Man....

I sat and basked in amazement of vintage visions as I listened to a woman who has been massaged through relationships of different calibers. She mesmerized me with moods of majestic moons in such a romantic dance. Some may call it a weakness to fall from a simple acquaintence but I believe it is magic. How do you know when you are in love? You become silly and began questioning your ever move. You can't believe it's happening to you yet it feels so damn good! With each passage of with this mate, you can't wait for the page to turn to the next high. Trivial matters don't matter and you would do anything to see that smile and see those eyes glow even more. You know when you are in love because it's the most precious feeling on the planet! A vixen can strum you like a harp and you just lay there and get played. However when "The One" cradles you near you know when you are in love because you feel safe and open. And if you are afraid of love, well you really don't know anything.

From all the real women, we say thank you Sir Quevon

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

How do you know when you are in love?

You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.-

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

What does he want from me!

Men like to give love and they like being loved in return; they appreciate a little romance from us ladies, and even though they are not into the frills to the extent that we are as women, a little massage oil, some candles and a hot bath really do go a long way with a real man!
Men want a woman who takes pride in her appearance. Plain and simple.... Men feel proud when they are with a woman who looks good and I don't believe any man who says that he doesn’t.
Men want to make a home eventually and are looking for a woman who will be a willing share her life with his. Many men want to embrace fatherhood and they are looking for a woman who would be willing to walk down the road of parenthood with them.
Men are seeking women who are feminine. Women who possess gentle and kind spirits resonates with men because deep down those are the qualities that make women a great mothers. When a woman can retain her femininity no matter what role she has to play outside of the home (and I will talk about that more later) she strikes a harmonious cord with a real man.
Men want a woman who is supportive. When a woman is either not able or willing to give that support that her man needs and is too quick to criticize then I assure you, he will become quickly dissatisfied and will eventually walk away.
Men want to be treated like men and respected for their leadership the relationship. I promise you ladies, telling him that “daddy did it this way” will be a big turnoff. Real men pride themselves on being able to take the leading role in the relationship. Notice I said Ream men? Boys want mamas and so it’s likely that they will be okay if you call every shot that is necessary. But a real man will no doubt want to take care of you as his woman and support you in things big and small. Your tire blew out on the highway? Yes you and I both know that we can call AAA, but let your first call be to him (not daddy, not older brother) and just ask him for his advice. Give him the first opportunity to be there to support you. He will appreciate that you sought out his opinion and once again, a REAL man will certainly come to your rescue.

Did I get it right fellas? Please feel free to comment. We ladies need to hear from you!

Till next time....

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

What does love really mean in the eyes of a man?

Love from a man can be a comma, a question mark, a period or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know.

What does love mean to you?