Monday, March 8, 2010

A man in love becomes a softer version of his former self.

Women are always wondering if their man is falling in love with them. And what do we do, we ask our girlfriends for the answer instead of watching the actions of the man himself.
You wont have to ask, just watch him.... recognizing the signs of his devotion can offer you all the reassurance you need.
You will begin to get his TIME! A sure sign that a man has fallen in love concerns his friends. At one time, "his boys" may have sat at the center of his universe, but when he becomes emotionally connected with you, he will want to spend more and more of that time with you. This goes for other things as well. Never buy into the “I am working so much I cant be with you right now”. A man in love will move heaven and earth to spend time with you no matter what his schedule is. A man in love can work 12 hours, drive an hour past his own home to come to your house AND get there after 10pm just to lay next to you in bed. Why, because even though his body is dead tired, you make his heart and soul alive and happy.
When a man's falling in love there is change in his decision-making- he begins to consider you and your feelings when he makes a decision. He starts to think about how his decision will affect you as a couple and he will most often ask for your input.
He opens his home to you- He stocks his refrigerator foods you like to eat or the type of soap that you use. He wants you to come over often and makes you feel at home.
He wants to explore the world with you- Has he asked you to travel with him somewhere new? Men in love not only want to share their interests with you but they began to feel close to you in a way that makes them want to create new experiences and adventures with you.
He starts to change things about his life that he once was comfortable with. Has a man ever told you, that you make him want to be a better man? If so, it’s because he is falling in love with you and he wants to give you the best. He becomes motivated in ways that he may have not been in a while or perhaps ever.
You hear from him often when you aren't together .Men want to be close to the women they adore and they will often call, text or email you when you are not together.
He becomes emotionally invested in you and the things your doing. When man is in love with you he'll have a genuine concern for the things you are experiencing good or bad. If a man is willing to drop everything to listen to your problems or help you with something, he has strong feelings for you.
A man in love will go out of his way to do things to surprise you. He wants to see you smile and He will take note of the things you enjoy and uses that information to create sweet gestures of surprise.
You can tell by the small things. He may hate cats, but will treat your cat like a feline princess. He uses we or us when talking about the future, there are pictures of you in his home or on his desk, or in his phone, he kisses you on your forehead and tells you that you are “so cute”.

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